
They say that around 20% of lesbians, gays and bisexuals marry a straight partner.
Yeah, it looks weird to some of you. But no!
You are wrong! Believe me, these odd couples live happy, make love, bear handsome children and spend great summer holidays together.
Well, I still remember that shiny day with its tasteful breakfast and that delicious news my tiny ears have heard:
-Honey! Your Dad is a bisexual! - Upps... Here we are...
-My father is gay! a large smile has richly decorated my face. “ A gay?”, the mime has suddenly changed.
-Yes, honey! A bisexual!
-Are you sure, Mom?
-Darling, it's not a joke!
-Hmm... Why are you telling me that? Who else knows? How about you, Mom? Oh... No!
I've rushed outside, everything was dark, foggy, already cloudy... “What a tidbit! Gee! Maybe that's the joke of the day! Oh, sure! My Mom was kidding! And what if not?”

That was a shock, an eruption of a fiery volcano, a tornado that destroyed every inch of my body.
That was sadness, anger, confusion, embarrassment and fear. That was a deep, large abyss.
I wanted to run and run, somewhere, far away... I wanted a golden fish in my palm to make me deaf for that dreadful moment... For the first time in my life I wanted to howl like a furious beast... And even vanish like a drop of water...
But was that the right solution?
“Time goes by, people change... And what if He still makes it with men? What if, what if...
Oh, God!”
All my buddies praise my Dad. They say he is a very wise man, a good friend, listener and counselor. They are right. He is very affectionate, tender, kind and loves my Mom. This couple is truly admired among our family's friends and other persons. They always laugh, dance, sing at Karaoke, cook together... Strange as it may seem, but this gentle, trustful, helpful father and husband is bisexual.

“That means he can freely engage in sex with a man. And then he comes back to us, to my Mom... OMG! I am so angry! How did it happen to him? So patient and lovely!
Hold on, hold on! The questions are flooding my mind like Niagara Falls. Just chill out! Patience, understanding and a little bit of thinking... thinking is what I need now.”
That was a common experience, an ordinary reaction of a child who finds out that his father is bisexual.
Yes, I was absolutely surprised and that news has significantly influenced my further attitudes towards family, sexual orientation and approach to life.
But time has passed and step by step I've welcomed this idea.
Generally, people are open-minded, flexible and have the ability to adapt to every change and unpredictable situation in their life. I tried to understand my fathers' behavior, my mother's thoughts, my own ideas. I've realized that bisexuals are the same heterosexual parents who feel deep love for their adorable sons and daughters.
They are natural people who do also need affection, support and understanding.
And I am extremely happy that I could find that magic key to that mysterious room. I've opened it up and I've found there in a soft armchair an affectionate husband, a careful father and a wise grandfather- my bisexual Dad!